Fred was the primary caregiver for his wife who has Parkinson’s disease. For about 10 years, he took care of all her daily needs, medications, medical appointment, and transportation. The worst part was, since his wife felt embarrassed with Parkinson’s and didn’t like to leave home, she became more and more grumpy. Unfortunately, Fred was the only person living with his wife and had to take all these stresses. The only time he could leave this behind is when he was working in his back yard.

After times of 1-1 conversations and navigation on the health care system, Fred was glad to know about Adult Day Center which he never knew before. With information and encouragement from staff, Fred contacted South Vancouver Adult Day Centre in his neighbourhood; and then visited with his wife. They were so impressed by the beautiful space, friendly participants, fun activities, good food, and nice staff. Immediately, they applied. Fortunately, his wife got a Friday spot in a month.

“What a relief! At least, I can be myself on Fridays.”

In fact, caregiving was still too heavy. Fred complained and worried about his own mental health. He was afraid, if he burnt out, who would take care of his loved one. Staff shared information about long term care. He refused immediately. He could not imagine being apart from each other. Staff gently encouraged him to talk with case managers and seek for more professional advice and updated resources. Only because of trusting in FFCS, Fred followed up. A case manager found his case was urgent and arranged a nursing home for his wife in just a couple of months, in March, 2026.

Currently, almost every day, Fred takes bus to visit his wife and has a walk together after having a good lunch at the nursing home. On weekends, Fred drives his loved one back home and the family meets together. Fred says it is not apart but like a date everyday!
“Caregiving navigation saved me before I burnt out.”